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Brianna LaPaglia Addresses Zach Bryan's "Deafening" Silence After Emotional Abuse Allegations
View Date:2024-12-23 06:41:17
Brianna LaPaglia has more to say about her split from Zach Bryan.
The Barstool Sports personality, also known as Brianna Chickenfry, shared her theory as to why her Grammy-winning ex has maintained his silence amid her allegations that he emotionally abused her during their year-long relationship.
“I obviously think he’s not responding because if he is to respond, he has to deny it,” she said on the Nov. 13 episode of her BFFs podcast, “then I post all the videos and the recordings.”
“I think the response itself, the silence, is deafening,” she continued. “I think his response proves his character again.”
LaPaglia added that she purposefully “didn’t share the whole story” in order to give Bryan, 28, the chance to reflect.
“I don’t believe people are lost causes,” she told cohosts Dave Portnoy and Josh Richards. “It was my final cry at help to try to get him to see what he does to people and to try to get him to get help.”
One week earlier, the 25-year-old detailed the “narcissistic, emotional abuse” she says she endured before the former couple split in October, telling her cohosts, “I'm still scared right now.”
“He manipulated the f--k out of me," LaPaglia said on the podcast’s Nov. 7 episode. “I don't expect people to understand emotional abuse if you haven't been through it, and I hope you never have to go through, but if you've been there, you know what I'm talking about. It was just this constant cycle of, ‘Built you up, beat you down, apologize,’ over and over and over.”
According to the internet personality, the country music star and his team also offered her $12 million to sign a non-disclosure agreement preventing her from discussing their relationship publicly. Ultimately, though, she turned down the request.
“I don't want, in two years, to buy a f--king house,” she shared, “and think, ‘Oh, this is the money from the dude that literally f--king destroyed me and broke me for a year.’ F--k that.”
E! News reached out to Bryan at the time but did not hear back.
While Bryan hasn’t addressed LaPaglia’s allegations of emotional abuse, hasn’t remained fully silent on social media as just a few days after she spoke about her experience, he wrote on his Instagram Stories that he was heading out on his motorcycle for a “last ride’a the season.”
The “I Remember Everything” singer announced his split from LaPaglia in an Instagram Stories post in late October, noting the “respect and love” he has for her. Hours later, she seemingly responded in a post of her own.
“Hey guys I’m feeling really blindsided right now,” she wrote. “Gonna hop off social media for a while and attempt to heal privately, when I’m ready I’ll be back and ready to talk.”
For more on the former couple's split, keep reading.
Breakup speculation was in full bloom after the Internet noticed fewer couple's posts than usual from Zach Bryan and Brianna "Chickenfry" LaPaglia, and commenters did not keep their suspicions to themselves.
"It was a bad week," Brianna acknowledged on the Oct. 2 episode of Barstool Sports' BFFs podcast when cohosts Dave Portnoy and Josh Richards quizzed her about the split rumors. "It's crazy, we don't post each other for a week, it took the Internet by storm. But he's going through a lot of personal stuff and I went home and just separated—we're together now and everything's OK."
Meanwhile, Zach was already on Dave's naughty list for making a crack about Taylor Swift (that he apologized for), but the Barstool Sports founder and self-proclaimed "King of the Swifties" allowed him one pass because he was Brianna's boyfriend.
Before it was publicly known that Brianna and Zach were no longer together, she advised against dating famous people during a sit-down on Haliey Welch's Talk Tuah podcast.
"I said on the BFFs [podcast] that I would never date anyone famous ever," Brianna noted on the episode released Oct. 22, the same day the breakup news broke. "Literally never wanted to and then it kinda just happened."
She didn't know why she changed her tune, she admitted. But, Brianna continued, "I wish it... don't date famous people."
On that note, she explained, "I think it’s better for the mental to not date someone famous. It's a lot."
In an Oct. 21 Instagram post, Brianna had shared a photo of a handwritten note detailing some pretty intense feelings.
"And eventually you'll find that life goes even if you dont want it to: The days will pass and the world will move while you ask it to stop," the message read. "You'll believe life is cruel for continuing on while your feet are stuck. You'll find people and moments to blame for your concrete feet. Then there will come a morning when you wake and realize things go on, life isn't cruel your feet are. The world keeps on spinning in hopes of showing you that you can as well."
All was revealed the next day.
Less than an hour after Zach's Instagram Story went live Oct. 22, Brianna followed up with her own: "Hey guys I’m feeling really blindsided right now," she wrote. "Gonna hop off social media for a while and attempt to heal privately, when I'm ready I’ll be back and ready to talk."
She added, "I love you guys so much thank you for all of your kind words. Remember you are so loved and everything's always gonna be OK."
Before the private healing commenced, Brianna said in an Oct. 22 YouTube video—recorded from the self-described "comfort" of her bathroom floor—that she had been "crying for like five days straight" when she woke up to Zach's post and its aftermath.
"I had no idea that post was going up," she said. "He didn't text me, he didn't call me. I just woke up to a bunch of texts being like, 'Are you okay?' and I'm like, 'Did my f--king dad die?'"
Reiterating that she was blindsided, she continued, "How can you give every ounce of yourself to someone and then be discarded of in a few days? It's really, really heartbreaking."
She didn't want to talk about it yet, Brianna added, but she would. "We broke up yesterday," she added, "so I wasn't ready to do anything publicly...I wanted to handle this as a human first."
All she wanted at the moment, she said, was to "just be hurt for a week and lay in bed."
In the wake of her speaking out about the breakup, Dave shared a YouTube link to Taylor's "The Smallest Man Who Ever Lived" and dedicated it to Brianna.
That, in turn, was screenshotted by a friend who posted on Brianna's Instagram Story on her behalf Oct 24, writing atop the pointed pic, "(Bris off socials but she gave me the green light for this) she'll be back Wednesday for bffs. she is with friends and family. I've been screenshotting some of your kind words and sending them to her. She loves you."
Addressing speculation that there was a rift between her and PlanBri Uncut podcast cohost Grace O'Malley because she didn't publicly wish her pal a happy birthday, Brianna returned to Instagram Story Oct. 30 to set a few things straight.
"Not allowing the internet to take over my personal relationships anymore,” Brianna wrote. "Need to set some boundaries and keep some things to myself."
In a separate post, she wrote, "I'm not interested in sharing my personal relationships online anymore because the internet wants so badly to ruin them all. Grace has been like a sister since I was 15 years old. I wished her a happy birthday privately."
BFFs hosts Dave and Josh found a creative outlet for their frustrations, releasing a diss track they called "Smallest Man."
"I said trust me, caught your pants on fire," began the song posted to YouTube Nov. 6. "Tinder, Bumble, Raya, knew you was a liar / You're a douchebag, you just made a new rival / Pretty soon you going to need a revival."
The track was initially blocked by Warner Music Group, citing copyright grounds, before resurfacing that same day.
In a post on X, Dave noted the temporary setback: "Zach Bryan and @warnermusic must have the worst crisis management execs in the world. Running around like chickens with their heads cut off trying to erase #smallestman from the internet. Did nobody tell them I run an internet company? They just guaranteed this thing hits #1."
He and Josh had teased the track on Instagram Nov. 5, and when a commenter accused them of not being brave enough to tag Zach, Brianna waded in and replied, "We r all blocked."
After seemingly not acknowledging any of the conversation coming from Brianna's corner, Zach picked Nov. 7 to release his song "High Road" and provide a status update.
He had visited his mother's gravesite a few nights back for the first time in more than a year, he wrote on Instagram, noting he was in Tulsa.
"Told her I quit touring because I got accepted to get my masters in Paris next year," he continued, "I told her I was back in Oklahoma, told her about all my best friends in New York and all the nights we howled with the moon, told her about the immeasurable laughter my band and me have shared these last five years, all the calluses on my finger tips, every tear shed, told her about making it on The Rolling Stone and most importantly told her about porch swinging with my beautiful sister."
He added, "I wrote the chorus for this song a month or two back and finished it when I realized I was blessed with all these things. I figured it was about time I released it. Thank you guys for listening to ‘This Worlds a Giant' last night and thank you to all the people who love me; who have truly carried the weight with me. Seems that all these Quiet Dreams have gotten much too heavy but I’m home now and I’ll hold you through the pain."
Brianna has alleged that her relationship with Zach was emotionally abusive.
"The last year of my life has been the hardest year of my life," she told Dave and Josh on the Nov. 7 episode of BFFs. "Dealing with the abuse from this dude—I'm still scared right now."
The 25-year-old said her brain had been "rewired" from being afraid to make her ex mad.
"He made me believe everything was my fault," Brianna continued. "He isolated me from my whole entire life. He wouldn't let me be who I wanted to be. He made me hate everything that I loved about myself."
Zach had "love bombed her," she said, and she ignored multiple red flags.
After four relatively smooth months, she said, he broke her down so that she felt "like he was all I had left, and he just kept repeatedly beating me down and beating me down."
Brianna also alleged during the episode that Zach's team offered her $12 million to sign an NDA and stay silent about their relationship.
While she didn't want money that reminded her of her ex, Brianna said she didn't decline just to be free to air their secrets either.
Rather, Brianna said, "I'm not signing away my experiences and what I went through to protect someone that hurt me."
E! News reached out to Zach for comment but has not heard back.
After they recorded, Dave wrote on X, "I know people have lots of strong opinions on Bri but after tonight's episode there can't be anybody who doesn't respect the s--t out of her."
"I knew I was making the right decision," Brianna wrote on her Instagram Story Nov. 7 after the episode dropped. "And I believe not going all out and not telling everything was the right decision too. You get the picture."
She continued, "Your messages have made me sob. I can't believe how many women and men have experienced the same abuse. You have me, I'll be a voice for you all always. If I can stand up to someone in power you can stand up to the bum from your hometown. This is all two weeks out so I'm still processing everything I went through. I'll continued to process and heal with you all! I love you I love you I love you."
A couple of hours later, she shared a video shot by an audience member at a stop on Barstool's Chicks in the Office: Little Fall Getaway Tour during a live performance of "Smallest Man," highlighting the lyric, "How lucky is Bri to be free of ZB."
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